5 Common Fears in Recovery & How to Face Them

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Updated May 8, 2024

Authored By:

Joe Gilmore

Edited By

Amy Leifeste

Medically Reviewed By

Javier Rodriguez-Winter

Authored By:

Joe Gilmore

Edited By

Amy Leifeste

Medically Reviewed By

Javier Rodriguez-Winter

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Fears about recovery often come from feeling uncertain about the unknown, which can cause us to assume the worst about a situation. 

Having the comfort of knowing exactly what to expect in recovery is the best way to combat this fear. This is especially true for those who fear the addiction recovery process. There are many unknowns and possibilities when facing addiction recovery, as an individual’s path is unique to their own substance use.

Our experienced team at Gratitude Lodge have been through recovery themselves, and are experts at helping our clients feel comfortable and welcomed during their time in treatment.

Call our friendly team today for help getting started with an addiction recovery program at 844-576-0144

Read on for an overview of the top 6 most common recovery phobias.

List of Fears in Recovery

  1. Fear of detox and withdrawal
  2. Fear of relapse
  3. Fear of dealing with emotions
  4. Fear of losing relationships
  5. Fear of sobriety

1) Fear of detox and withdrawal

The apprehension surrounding what drug detox and withdrawal entails is a widespread fear that can delay someone initiating the recovery process. The progressive nature of substance use disorder makes this especially dangerous.

Although dramatized depictions of detox in media may suggest that the drug or alcohol withdrawal is almost unmanageable, engaging with supervised medical detoxication streamlines the process. Continuous clinical care reduces the chance of complications, which can be potentially life-threatening in the event of opioid, alcohol, or benzo withdrawal. Access to FDA-approved medications reduces the severity of withdrawal symptoms, while emotional support can help ease the transition from drug or alcohol dependence to life substance-free.

Detox and withdrawal, then, need not be uncomfortable or intimidating. In addition to helping people overcome physical dependence, detox also serves as a bridge to ongoing recovery.

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2) Fear of relapse

Hesitating to take the first step toward recovery because of a fear of failure is like forfeiting the race before it begins. Giving yourself the opportunity to try can lead to unexpected and positive outcomes, though.

Oftentimes, entering a drug or alcohol rehab is the nudge someone needs to start a clean slate. While the possibility of relapse exists due to the nature of the chronic condition, it does signify defeat. Relapsing is not only commonplace, but it’s a part of the learning curve in the ongoing recovery process. Relapse is not exclusive to addiction – it’s common in the management of many chronic diseases.

If relapse occurs, this presents an opportunity to analyze the triggers and circumstances that played into the relapse. Introspection can be highly effective in developing strategies to avoid similar situations unfolding in the future. Relapse does not equate to personal or treatment failure. Instead, it indicates that the current treatment approach needs refinement.

3) Fear of dealing with emotions

For many people, addictive behaviors are rooted in deeper psychological struggles. Substances may initially be used as a protective mechanism against challenging emotions. Drugs and alcohol may temporarily numb the sharp edges of stress, anxiety, depression, and trauma. With this artificial buffer stripped away, though, people must confront those emotions undilutedly. Beyond this, addiction often provokes a deterioration in physical and mental health, as well as relationships, adding layers of emotional turmoil to an already heavy burden.

Therapeutic support enables people addressing addictions to manage and process complex emotions. Through various forms of behavioral therapy like CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) and DBT (dialectical behavior therapy), those in recovery can master techniques to manage stress, improve emotional tolerance, and create sustainable coping techniques.

Behavioral interventions can also support people in setting clear, actionable goals, guiding them through mental and emotional turbulence toward a place of stability and resilience.

4) Fear of losing relationships

The fear of losing relationships during recovery may seem like a high social price to pay, but this concern overlooks the resilience of genuine connections.

As a person moves from active addiction into ongoing abstinence and recovery, their relationships often change. However, this isn’t just an ending, but rather the beginning of something new and potentially more rewarding. Relationships built on a foundation of authenticity and mutual support not only endure but often become stronger. Recovery acts as a filter, distilling a person’s social circle to those who truly care and encouraging the formation of new friendships with individuals who respect and encourage sober lifestyles. Recovery also opens the doors to communities and support networks that can offer deeper and more fulfilling interactions.

5) Fear of sobriety

The apprehension that sobriety might lead to a monotonous existence significantly underplays the dynamic and enriching life that’s possibly when a person discontinues the compulsive use of addictive substances.

Sobriety should not be viewed as a state that subtracts joy from life. Meaningful and sustainable recovery involves the rediscovery of hobbies, passions, and pleasures that were once overshadowed by drugs or alcohol. The simple pleasure of greeting each day with a clear mind, the ability to immerse yourself completely in experiences, and the reawakening of interests that provide genuine happiness – these are all true gifts bestowed by sobriety.

Understanding The Root of Fear in Addiction Recovery

Fear in addiction recovery often stems from the sweeping changes that people face when moving from addiction to ongoing abstinence. These fears are often rooted in the uncertainty of leaving behind the familiar but destructive patterns of substance abuse and stepping into the unknown.

Many people use addictive substances to self-medicate the symptoms of stress or mental health conditions. When the shield of the addictive substance is removed during the recovery process, people are suddenly faced with the raw realities of their emotions, relationships, and life circumstances. The prospect of addressing these issues without the crutch of drugs or alcohol can be intimidating.

Beyond this, addiction alters brain chemistry, impacting how people respond to stress and fear. Recovery means that people need to relearn how to cope with these responses without resorting to old habits. It’s a reprogramming of the mind that requires time, patience, and support.

Social stigma and self-stigma can also play roles in fueling fear. The worry about judgment from others or internalized guilt can make the future seem less challenging. This fear is inflamed by the misconception that addiction defines a person, rather than being a challenge that they’re working to overcome.

That said, while fear is a natural response, it can also become a powerful motivator. It encourages the pursuit of healing and the develop of new, healthier coping mechanisms.

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Get Addiction Recovery in a Safe, Comfortable Environment at Gratitude Lodge

Overcome your fear of recovery by choosing to initiate treatment at Gratitude Lodge in Southern California. We have welcoming and inclusive luxury facilities in Newport Beach and Long Beach devoted to your whole-body recovery from drug addiction or alcoholism.

Supervised medical detoxification at Gratitude Lodge makes the withdrawal process safe and comfortable. With the proper medications and 24/7 care, we’ll help you streamline the transition to ongoing inpatient treatment.

All addiction treatment programs at Gratitude Lodge offer personalized treatments that include:

  • MAT (medication-assisted treatment)
  • Psychotherapy
  • Motivational therapy
  • Group therapy
  • One-to-one counseling
  • Family therapy
  • Holistic treatments
  • Aftercare planning

Call our friendly recovery specialists today at 844-576-0144.

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Drug detox can vary according to the patient’s addiction factors, including the substance abused, how long the addiction has lasted, the patient’s medical condition, if any other disorders are present, and more. Our skilled and credentialed team at Gratitude Lodge work closely with every patient going through drug detox, facilitating the beginnings of a successful recovery at our rehab addiction centers in Orange County, CA.

Drug detox can vary according to the patient’s addiction factors, including the substance abused, how long the addiction has lasted, the patient’s medical condition, if any other disorders are present, and more. Our skilled and credentialed team at Gratitude Lodge work closely with every patient going through drug detox.

Many patients don’t realize the toxicity of prolonged alcohol abuse and how it affects the body. Alcohol detox at the luxurious rehab addiction centers at Gratitude Lodge leeches your body of these toxins in preparation for successful treatment for drugs and alcohol abuse. Alcohol detox may not take as long or produce severe withdrawal symptoms, but it is still an essential beginning to your recovery.

Many patients don’t realize the toxicity of prolonged alcohol abuse and how it affects the body. Alcohol detox at the luxurious rehab addiction centers at Gratitude Lodge leeches your body of these toxins in preparation for successful treatment for drugs and alcohol abuse.
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Holistic Therapy

Our holistic therapy treatments offer a full-scope approach to recovery, addressing your mind, body, and emotions as part of a comprehensive treatment plan. This therapy is designed to help address underlying issues and integrate alternative therapies to promote overall health and well-being.
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Psychotherapy

An essential part of your treatment experience, we offer individual (CBT and DBT talk therapy) and group addiction treatment counseling to help you explore and address the emotional component of addiction, providing you with the tools, self-awareness, and empowerment you need to maintain recovery.
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Dual Diagnosis

Dual Diagnosis is a highly effective addiction treatment that addresses substance use and mental health disorders simultaneously. Often co-occurring, these disorders are best managed when treated together with specific and targeted therapy.
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Medication-Assisted Treatment (MAT)

Medication-Assisted Treatment provides you with FDA-approved medications to help ease the symptoms of withdrawal while you’re in treatment. This makes the detox process easier and safer, as well as increasing the chances of a successful recovery.
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Sober Living

Sober living provides a supportive and substance-free living environment for your ongoing recovery. We partner with a number of upscale and carefully vetted sober living homes that are available to our clients after inpatient alcohol and drug addiction treatment.
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Outpatient Treatment

Once detox and inpatient are complete, we provide an easy transition to outpatient care through our hand-selected partners. This program offers a more flexible approach, allowing you to ease back in to daily life while still receiving frequent & effective care.
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Inpatient Treatment

Inpatient treatment provides an intensive and comprehensive addiction treatment program in a structured environment. You will receive 24/7 expert care, therapy, and support as you build your foundation for long-term recovery.
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Drug & Alcohol Detox

A crucial first step in the recovery process, our detox program provides a comfortable, medically supervised environment that addresses the physical aspect of addiction and eliminates substances from your body.
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Jenni Busse MS, LPCC

Jenni Busse MS, LPSS is the Clinical Director at Gratitude Lodge. Jenni oversees the clinical program and the clinical team at Gratitude Lodge as a whole. Jenni has worked in treatment for almost 14 years. Her background as a licensed therapist and her passion for helping others intersected with addiction recovery when she started working primarily in detox residential treatment.
Joe Gilmore

Joseph Gilmore

Joseph Gilmore has been working in the addiction industry for half a decade and has been writing about addiction and substance abuse treatment during that time. He has experience working for facilities all across the country. Connect with Joe on LinkedIn.

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